Gode acier inoxydable Pure Wand, njoy

I thought I knew everything I needed to know about my body, what turned me on, what it could do. The experience I've had with this toy has been nothing short of transcendent. The price might be a little off-putting but seeing as its made of medical-grade stainless steel it will last a lifetime - unlike the shoebox of degrading jelly toys under my bed... It's worth every penny - but with a caveat - this was a gift from a squirt-obsessed admirer - with the only obligation being to try it once and see if I like it. Reader, I've not put it down.

I believe more has been written about the Pure Wand as a revolutionary P-spot stimulator than as a G-spot stimulator, which is a shame, as more people should know about this. I'm not one to go on about packaging, but the njoy Pure Wand outdoes itself nestling innocently in a pink satin-lined box. It is contradictory with its cold steel and mirror shine, contrasted with its organic and ergonomic curves. It's heavy. It weighs about 1.5lbs, but if you use it right you won't notice. What makes this toy different from all other G-spot stimulators is that the weight and shape puts serious pressure - not vibration - on your Skene's gland, and *that's* what will get you closer to squirting.

It's strongly suggested that you warm the wand up to body temperature with warm water (you can obviously pop it in the fridge too, if colder sensations do it for you). The steel retains the heat for ages. A tiny bit of lube on the small end (doesn't matter which kind of lube for once!) and away you go. From here you can easily pinpoint your G-spot and either rock or thrust the toy to do so. Once you feel suitably warmed up, remove, wipe off and reverse so the large end is inserted. Just let the weight do its thing and guide gently with your hands.

My personal experience, and the experience of professional sex toy reviewers, seems to be that this is a solo toy. The sensations are engrossing and using it honestly feels like a kind of sexual meditation - you don't want to be distracted or made self-conscious by the presence of a partner as you begin this voyage of self-discovery. Perhaps you could do so as you become more accustomed to it.

So it's obviously easy to clean. If you want to sterilise it in boiling water, remember to line the saucepan with a tea towel so the mirror shine doesn't get scuffed.

Bonus: if nosy guests or family find it, they won't have a clue what it is. Tell them it's a Phillipe Starck door handle!

Wow! There are no words that will do this toy justice. You genuinely have to try it out just to appreciate how truly magnificent it is.

The njoy is stunning to look at, and comes beautifully packaged in a satin lined box, which just adds a further touch of luxury.

Being stainless steel, it's weighty. And cold! It will definitely make you squirm. Although it also warms quickly and retains the heat, so is great for temperature play.

The delicious curve means that the njoy is always on target. It never fails to hit the G-spot. Being heavy and solid, it maintains amazing pressure, resulting in the most fantastic orgasms with very little effort.

My only regret is that I didn't buy this toy sooner.

Bought this for my partner who claims to never have experienced multiple orgasms or squirting. Once we got the hang of it she came multiple times and made a mess of the bed. She is addicted to it now.

She then used it on me for a prostate massage, again I'd tried other toys and never got there. Not with this! I've never experienced an orgasm like it.

I am writing this from the view point of a straight male strongly into prostate stimulation with or without my girlfriend.

This is a top-shelf product which delivers massive, long-lasting P-spot generated orgasms. You don't have to touch your penis at all while using the broader end this wand. The sheer weight of this wand on your prostate and some slow massage will take you there.

I prefer to warm it up a bit in water before use, but for some of you, it may be a better idea to put in a freezer for a while for different sensations.

I have coveted the pure wand for years but never felt like I could justify the cost. I got a tax rebate and decided to treat myself, and I wish I’d never waited.

The wand is so easy to heat up and to cool down. The stainless steel is frictionless, providing a completely different sensation to silicone or glass toys. It’s a heavy toy, but lighter than expected, and feels absolutely glorious just being rocked over my G-spot.

It’s a toy to learn how to squirt with, and using it in tandem with a clitoral toy is extremely good fun. Absolutely recommended, and not outrageously expensive if you use Lovehoney discounts!