Gode ventouse courbé silicone Air and Water 18 cm, Lovehoney

The largest toy I've used has been a finger vibrator so this is significantly larger than what I'm used to. I definitely didn't want anything lifelike and nothing too long or big (girth-wise).

But LH has an amazing Beginner's Guide to dildos which was extremely useful because I was definitely struggling looking at page after page of products. The Guide simplified the search and made some great suggestions. After perusing the Guide for a while, I found this one.

I immediately liked what I saw. Not too long or too thick. And purple is my favourite colour so that's a bonus! I read every single review that's been written about it - good or bad - and the more I read about it, the more I liked it. There was also a short video explaining the features and how it looked in someone's hand to demonstrate size/length.

It was very helpful reading the reviews that suggested this dildo to beginners because, as someone who has only ever used fingers or a vibrator to orgasm, I would definitely recommend this for someone looking to buy their first dildo.

So let's get to it!

Delivery was prompt; I received my purchase in two days. It arrived in an unspeakably boring brown postage box; inside, brown paper perfectly cushioned the very pretty pink-and-white LH box. There was also a slip of paper clearly explaining how refunds are organised. Needless to say, I've now thrown that slip of paper away!

The box itself has an image of the dildo; one side of the box explains the features, the other side explains how to use and care for it

Inside, the dildo is wrapped in plastic but there's no nasty plastic-y taste or smell. A very cute LH logo at the base lines up with the curve so you can tell if the dildo is turning slightly during your exertions!

It's the most basic of basic toys but it's exactly what I was looking for!

Once out of the plastic, the silicone is unbelievably soft and smooth. There's a very slight seam from the base to the tip but you can barely feel it with your finger, let alone when it's inside you. There's a slight bump at the tip but nothing too scary. The base is sturdy and has a small hole for your bullet vibrator. I don't have one so I use the hole as an 'anchor' for my finger to keep the dildo from turning.

I don't have a pouch to keep this in so, to prevent it from collecting dust and other particles, probably best to keep it in the box it came in.

If you're like me and this is the very first dildo you've ever bought, remember this golden rule - lube is your friend.

On my first use, I thought it would be enough just giving it a bit of a blowjob and using my natural lubrication. It worked for a little while but then it got a bit uncomfortable and I ended up using my vibrator to get off.

Water-based lube is the key to getting the absolute best from this toy. It says it on the box too so always remember to keep your trusty water-based lube close by. It hit my G-spot perfectly and felt so damn good!

I haven't used this dildo against the wall/tiles/floor so I can't comment much on the suction cup, but since I always wash it after use, it's easier to bring it into the shower with me and suction it to the tiles. It doesn't seem to stick well to dry tiles but wet tiles seem to do the trick. Glass seems to work well and it also stuck firmly on my hardwood floor.

Always remember to keep it clean; if you don't have sex toy cleaner, warm soapy water works just as well.

Overall, I'm really happy; the whole experience from research to delivery was thorough, quick and discreet. To all the beginners out there looking for a new toy or an upgrade from your current toy, look no further. I can't recommend this toy enough; once you get used to it, it feels amazing.

Thank you, Lovehoney!

We purchased this dildo as part of our foray into pegging along with the Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs, which were a perfect match for both her and him.

The dildo itself is perfect for us with its non-realistic look and soft touch and shape. Not too hard and not too soft with narrow tip for easy insertion and wide base make idea. It's not intimidating and imagine it would please most back ends. You also have a chamber to insert a small bullet vibrator (tip: lube the bullet before inserting into the dildo).

Him:

7 inches of heaven... Hit the P spot in both doggy and missionary positions and I was dripping almost immediately and with every thrust from start to end. Having her take control of me and switch places was incredibly sexy. My orgasm seemed to feel stronger and last longer. It was just incredible!!

Her:

It's our first time pegging and it's a real turn-on to plough your husband but was a little worried thrusting him. However, with the size and bright colour it was was easy to see how far I was going in. Don't know if it was the vibrations from the bullet or the act that was getting me off, but I nearly came when I was inside him. It's a real turn-on to see your man squirming with pleasure underneath you.

For anyone looking to get into pegging we would whole heartedly recommend the dildo! Oh... It's also very well made and easy to keep clean. :)

I bought this 7 inches of delight for some harness pants for me and my other half to use.

It’s got multiple uses. We have used it for pegging. Perfect size, the right flexibility, and really fun, either with or with out the harness pants.

The suction cup works on multiple surfaces, which is great, and doesn’t collect bits of dust like I imagined it would!

It cleans really well and easily!

I've had this toy for a few years now and it is the dildo I reach for the most when I'm in the mood for penetration.

Big enough to feel amazing, but approachable - unlike some larger dildos I have that I need some warming up before I use them. It is perfect for use on a harness with a partner and also for solo play as the flared base provides a good handle. So smooth and always comfortable. A lovely colour that definitely caught my eye on the website. Super easy to clean, too!

This is definitely the best dildo I have ever used. Perfect at hitting that G-spot due to the curved design.

The suction cup feature makes it easy to suction to either a wall or to the floor and ride it cowgirl style.

Beautiful purple colour and easy to clean off. Great quality product. Orgasm guaranteed!