Vibromasseur clitoridien rechargeable USB Touch par We-Vibe

Me and my partner bought this a couple of years ago and I still love it as much as the day we bought it. It was the first real vibrator I used (not counting dodgy $5 eBay bullets) and honestly I don't think I'll ever use another.

It's the perfect size and shape for pretty much everything - solo play, using it during penetrative sex, use on male partners (it's just perfect for edging), and god, just everything.

It's shaped perfectly for the female anatomy, no need to puzzle out what should go where (a pet peeve I have with toys). It's also the quietest toy I own. Even just a thick blanket over top silences it.

The button is easy to press and conveniently located. The modes are all very fun (I honestly lasted about 5 seconds the first time I tried the waves/increasing and decreasing intensity pattern) and perfect for changing things up in the moment, and it's a very entertaining shower buddy.

The charger is pretty straightforward and discreet. Just a small unremarkable bit of plastic you put on the end of your phone charger. Its battery life is top-notch as well - I've only ever had it run out on me when I'd forgotten to charge it for days. It's easy to wash because of its silky soft silicone and lack of open charging ports. You won't regret spending a little extra to have this toy in your life.

My wife and I have tried a number of products to spice up our sex lives. I can say without doubt that this clitoral vibrator is the most effective, orgasm-inducing toy we've purchased, followed by an earlier thrusting rabbit vibrator we had bought previously.

One real benefit of this toy is the multiple uses. It works well in sexual positions that don't give much in the way of clitoral stimulation, and is mind-blowing when paired with a dildo - there is often nothing more arousing than making your loved one come as hard as this combination does, whilst leaving you more time to focus on her reaction to it.

The only downside is the intensity of this toy during foreplay - she may not need to proceed with the main event afterwards! I can recommend this vibrator whole-heartedly, high price and dodgy magnetic recharger connection aside.

I've often had the sense that a lot of the time, sex toys for vulvas are designed by looking at peises, not at vulvas. This was one of the first sex toys that I ever got the sense was designed by someone looking at a vulva and going "What would feel good on that?"

The shape is perfect, the little indentation cups the clitoris comfortably, while the pointed front can be used to apply intense stimulation with precision. It's not something I ever would have realised I needed until I had one of these. I can even press it slightly above the clitoris to stimulate a millimetre or two of the buried parts that usually don't get it on the fun (but that may just be a quirk of my anatomy).

It's nicely powerful, and easy to hold.

To give some balance, I should say that the magnetic charger is infuriating and balancing it so that it stays on charge SUCKS. However, the charger is an attachment to a micro USB cable, which means I only need to carry a little magnetic charger, not a whole cable with me, and I don't use the charging cable or get confused which one is which (since I have hundreds of micro usb cables, and the charger is distinctive).

The absolute biggest problem with the Touch is that it's operated with just one button, which is terrible. You press it to turn it on, press and hold to turn off, then each subsequent press cycles through powers and vibration patterns and ultimately turns it off. Firstly, I hate vibration patterns and so does everyone I've asked (okay, maybe that was just my girlfriend), but it means that if I'm on power level 4 (of 4) and I, say, have an orgasm, I usually like to decrease the power slowly in the afterglow. To do so with a We-Vibe touch I'd have to click through 4 patterns, then turn it back on, then press twice more to get to level 3. If I then wanted to go to level 2 I'd have to click through level 4 and 4 patterns and then turn it on and go through level 1. This is terrible control design.